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Oct
2006

6th Featured Member

Comment Published at 07:2307:2311 comments11 comments483 Visits483 VisitsReport
So I'll have a go now!

Starting with name, location, how many children:
I have two stepkids, both teenagers, but we have been a family for the past 12 years. One has recently started High School and one just entered into University. Despite rather varied backgrounds, we are all currently in the US.

How did you find Minti:

I don't really remember. I'm sure it was through some kind of search engine somewhere, but I have no idea what I was looking for that brought me here.

What's your favorite thing or feature at Minti:
I love how international everything is. You can get some really fresh viewpoints on advice when there are so many voices from so many cultures contributing. On our cooking group alone I am learning that even working out a grocery list is a cultural thing.

What's your favorite thing about being a parent:
When I see our two kids excited, healthy and making their way forward, it makes me happy. Not pride so much, really, just an overall sense of things being all right.

What has been your biggest parenting challenge:
Keeping up with everything teenagers get into. Sometimes it seems like everything is working against you. People often forget teenagers are not just skinny adults. They are still impulsive and inexperienced and forging all this with raging hormones and mixed societal messages. They are dealing with way too much on their own for the adults around them to just withdraw their guidance.

What's the best parenting advice you've ever gotten from someone:
My husband keeps reminding me that for bad or good, once they are out of the house and out of school (college for us), you will have to let them make their own way. We do everything we can now, then just step back and let them go. Then they will make some mistakes, have some successes, and at that point you cannot claim ownership of either.

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mcm
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2006 | mcm
Congrats!
Congratulations on being minti featured member! Sorry I am slow!
Wow teenagers! I vaguely remember being one and to think in a few short years I will have one in the form of my lil girl!


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sh0nna
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2006 | sh0nna
Teenagers
While I am too knew to really know what the featured member thing is (though the name kinda gives it away) I offer up congrats as well. And when my son is a teenager, I will be looking to you for advice. The thought that my one year old will some day be borrowing the car and dating and full of hormones scares me to death. Ugh! I barely tolerate teenagers now. My little brother in law is a teenager and being trapped in the car with him and his friends drives me up the wall. I cringe and tell myself that I wasn't that bad but deep down I know i was worse. Excuse me while I go apologize to my father......


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lindterbean
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2006 | lindterbean
wow!
thanks guys for all the support! what a nice community Minti is!


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TheMentorMom
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2006 | TheMentorMom
Congrats!
Congrats from me as well lindterbean on being the featured member!  You make a great point about keeping up with teens.  We do forget that they are still experienced besides their grown up packages.  As usual, you have shown how insightful you are.  Congrats again!


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wildrose
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2006 | wildrose
Congrats to lindterbean
Congrats to be the 6th featured member. It's so true about your husband advice/reminder about our kids outside the house. It makes us think what our parents felt when we were young too, or even still feel the same way anytime anywhere. Now we as the parent have the experience.


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ollie71
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2006 | ollie71
If you can cope with your teenagers power to you.

I was told they are three times worse than 2 year olds.  I went back to work so I did not have to deal with my son's 2 year old antics.

I agree that Linterbean has had wonderfull practical advice and I would have to agree most of the time.  She is a working mum with many skills that I admire.  I hope that one day my children will be just as successful as her family.

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Jessgore
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2006 | Jessgore
Yea for Lindterbean...
Congratulations...  Keep up the good work.. You do a wonderful job....


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Izzy
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2006 | Izzy
Featured Member: Lindterbean

Congrats to you! This recognition is well deserved. I agree with Helen, you are such a calming voice around here.



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hrs2004
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2006 | hrs2004
Congratulations!

Well done for being the next featured member. It is lovely to have such a calming voice around here - it is amazing how much I feel I get to know people by what they write, and you might even look something like I imagine (though I very much doubt I'm close!).

Great answers and some useful and informative articles, amongst all your good stuff. Well done and keep it up! Oh, and I don't envy you the teenager bit - so not looking forward to that. Luckily I have a few years left to get used to the idea...



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tinker79
October 2006 | tinker79
Congrats!

My congrats off to you!! I agree with your biggest parenting challenge. It's hard to keep up with teenagers. We just hope we guide them in the right direction and hope for the best!



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michellei
5.00 (Excellent) | October 2006 | michellei
6th Featured Member
Congrats on being the 6th featured member.


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